Sunday, May 4, 2008

We Miss You

My tender wife has asked that I post a message in tribute to a wonderful and beloved man. As many of you know Amys dear brother Justin, her oldest sibling, was found dead Friday morning. This was an unexpected tragedy that has left us all with broken hearts and many tears. We are so grateful for the countless prayers and the outpouring of love that has been manifested these past few days for Amy, her family, and Justins wonderful wife and four precious little boys. Thank you all for your kindness.


I have only known Justin for three, all to short, years, but he touched me, like so many others, with his all encompassing love and his true gift of understanding an individual. My brother-in-law said it best when he said: "Justin was the type of person who when he asked how your day was, he really wanted to know." Justin had a passion for learning, a genius for working, a gift of listening, and a joy for playing. If Justin was involved, it was a great time. Boys night will not be the same.

Justin was a patient man who was always considerate and temperate. Justin was a tender man who always seemed to know what to say. Justin was always had an easy smile, a ready hug, and a contagious positive attitude. His wisdom and insight are irreplaceable. His laugh and cowlick are unforgetable.

The greatest thing that I can possible say about Justin was that he loved his wife, his children and his family with everything that he had. No one can question his love for his family. He was a good man, a great husband and a wonderful father. He was a role model to everyone that knew him and his influence has shaped the collective destiny of his family. He was the best of men.

Justin L. Bluth
Feb. 28th, 1974 - May 2nd, 2008
Justin you were a true friend. We miss you.

30 comments:

Clarissa Meegan said...

You will be in our thoughts and prayers Forbis Family! We love you!

Lindsay Riggs said...

You have been in our prayers the past few days. I'm so sorry for the Bluth family. We love you guys!

Jewelle said...

So sorry for your loss. We will praying for you.
~Jewelle and Russ(Pots)

Lane family said...

Amy- I wish there were words to make this better. I know that there aren't any. You and your family are in my prayers. I am so sorry.
-Meghan

Amy said...

So sorry for your loss! Your family is in our prayers.

Stock Family said...

We are so sorry for your loss. You and your family will be in our prayers as well.

Fay Call said...

Amy--I'm so so sorry, I wish you the best and will be thinking of you.

McKell and John said...

Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your entire family! Lots of love, Mckell Toolson (allen)

elizabeth said...

To find words to relay your feelings at a time such as this is almost impossible, especially during the shock of it all. My heart hurts when I think of your wonderful family and the pain you're feeling. We are all praying that you'll feel the comfort of the Savior's Atonement during this time and that your family will come together to love and comfort each other and to and remember Justin's wonderful impact on so many lives.

the silva family said...

Justin and I became friends when he worked with me for a short time and Nicole was in our ward when she was converted to the gospel. My wife was her visiting teacher. (in case you didn't know who we were). Justin was an awesome guy who always had a smile on his face. He had a marvelous love for life and seemed genuinely happy to be your friend. He was so in love with Nicole and on the few occasions that I would run into him he was always excited about what he was doing and always had kind words to say about his family. My heart goes out to Nicole and his children, and you Amy who I didn't know, and to President and Sister Bluth and the rest of the Bluth Family. I know Justin is anxiously engaged in the Lord's work to those on the other side who need the gospel. You are in our prays
- Scott & Tricia Silva

Stacy said...

Amy, when my parents told me the news about your brother my heart sank. I am so deeply sorry for your loss. My sister Stephanie and her husband Jerel were very good friends with him in high school. They keep saying what a wonderful person he was. I think this tribute was so sweet and touching. You and your entire family are in our thoughts and prayers!!

bcritchfield said...

There aren't two better people on the planet than Justin and Nicole. I love those guys, despite the fact that we haven't stayed in touch over the last few years.

My heart aches for everyone involved. However, what a comfort the knowledge of eternal families brings.

Thanks for the tribute. I know I will never forget the example that Justin was to me.

Love,
Brian Critchfield

John and Dana Lyn said...

We are sorry for your loss. We are praying for your family and that the understanding of the plan of salvation and the Atonement of Christ will bring peace and comfort to your souls.
~ John and Dana Critchfield

jana said...

My heart deeply goes out to all of your Family. Justin leaves an incredible legacy of love, compassion, and service. You will all continue to be in our prayers especially throughout these next few days. Love to you all!!! xoxoxo

Jana Yeager Family

Sanchez Gang said...

Amy I am so sorry for your loss! Justin was a great man from what i knew of him and I just love your family! my prayers and thoughts are with you and your family and if i can help with what ever please let me know! i can take paige for you any day!

m said...

our thoughts are with you and your family. this is the first time i've stumbled onto your blog and we are sorry to hear this news. we love you and pray that you may be able to feel heavenly father's love at this time and that your family is surrounded by comfort and love right now.
love-
peter, michael and anden owens

Brenna Manson (Wheeler) said...

I am so sorry for the loss of Justin. My heart, mind, and prayers are with all of you during this time. You have an incredible family. There are so many of us hurting for all of you. May Heavenly Father sustain you through this tragedy.

Tiffany said...

We love you forbis'-- Please call us for ANYTHING! I don't want to bug you in your time of greiving- but know that so many of us- especially ME will be there for you if you need ANYTHING- help with Paige, meals, some good cookies, any other babysitting. You name it -you got it!! Your family is in our thoughts and prayers! We love you!!

Kiera said...

I'm so sad to hear this news and sorry for your loss. You are in my prayers!

Bill Critchfield said...

Its been many years since I have seen Justin or Nicole. I however grew up with them and the Bluth family, and was crushed to hear of this tradegy. My heart goes out to Lothaire and Connie, as well as to Nicole and their boys. I am so grateful for the plan of salvation and for my privledge in having known Justin and his family.

With Much Love,

Bill & Jeana Critchfield

The John Family said...

Hope you guys are doing good. You are in our prayers. Let us know if you need anything!

Summers Camp said...

Oh Forbis family et al. May God be with you. *B

Susie Jensen said...

Thank you for that very touching and sweet tribute. Justin is a wonderful person with such a loving heart of gold.

My friendship with him was in high school and the memories I have of him will be treasured forever. Our hearts go out to the entire Bluth family and to Nicole and her four sweet boys.

Our thoughts and prayers are continually with them daily and we pray for comfort and peace for your entire family during this very difficult time.

With Love,
Susie Thornock Jensen

Andrew Ainsworth said...

Justin and I were friends and roommates at BYU for several years, and when you live with someone for that long you feel like family. Although Justin and I had fallen out of touch for the past few "child rearing" years (and with him living in AZ and me in CA), learning of his unexpected passing has been absolutely heartbreaking news for me and our circle of friends from college. There honestly aren't words to describe the anguish and loss we all feel.

I am thankful to have known Justin and to have been his friend and roommate. He was always laughing, smiling, and trying to figure out how to make life fun and enjoyable. And he didn't have a mean bone in his body. He was one of the kindest, gentlest people I've ever known. He had such a good heart.

My prayers are with you, Nicole, and your boys. I'll be coming to the funeral on Friday. May God comfort you, the boys, and your extended families.

-Andrew Ainsworth

The Johnson Family said...

Amy, I'm so sorry to hear about your brother, you and your family are in our thoughts and prayers!! Love ya tons, Nick & Jenny

Teri said...

Thanks for posting this loving tribute. I too have only known Justin since joining this wonderful family. Your words were perfect. I am so sorry for this horrible loss. I will miss him, but my prayers are for you and your family. I love Nicole and pray the Lord will bless her throughout her life. I am so sad, but know that our Savior will be there to walk along this road of mourning with you. I am in Idaho and just found out today that I will not be able to be back for the funeral. I am sad that I will miss the loving tributes and words. He is a wonderful man.

LaRance family said...

I'm so sorry Amy. Your family will be in our prayers.

Anonymous said...

Justin was a friend to me in high school. I've always appreciated his friendship. He often went out of his way to talk with me and make me feel important. My heart goes out to his family. You are in my prayers. Justin was a good man and I firmly believe you will see him again, after this life. God bless you all in your time of tragedy. I know the pain of losing a brother. In 2000 we lost a beloved brother. Look to our Heavenly Father for strength and support and He will help you through the difficult times.

Jourdan said...

Every member of your family have been in my prayers and on my mind, but specifically Nicole and her beautiful boys.

I pray that peace will come and the love you feel as a family and for The Plan will only grow through this experience.

Love,
Jourdan Bluth Boynton
(My dad, Oscar A. Bluth is your dad's cousin)

Emily Shurtleff said...

Hey Amy, I don't know if you remember me, It's been a long time since we have seen each other. My maiden name is Hight. I am really sorry for your loss. I was looking over you Blog and you have such a cute little family. We should stay in contact.

Your cousin,
Emily Shurtleff